Episode 103
Adapting Business Leadership in the AI Era with Bardeep Panesar | Biz Bites
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Adapting business leadership for the AI era.
Speaker:In this episode of Biz Bites, I welcome Bardeep, an accomplished
Speaker:business and leadership coach to share his inspirational journey
Speaker:and insights on redefining business culture and leadership.
Speaker:He's had incredible journey across multiple contents, including a
Speaker:personal life changing battle.
Speaker:And we discussed the importance of self leadership, purposeful living
Speaker:and adaptability in the workplace, especially in an era, increasingly
Speaker:influenced by artificial intelligence.
Speaker:Biz Bites.
Speaker:Don't miss the bonus content.
Speaker:And the details in the links in the show notes where we explore
Speaker:the future implications of AI on human purpose and identity.
Speaker:You really don't want to miss that one.
Speaker:Stay listening now of course for an enlightening conversation filled with
Speaker:personal anecdotes, expert advice, lots of ideas for you, forward thinking
Speaker:they are, and leadership and business.
Speaker:Concepts that are really going to make a difference to your business.
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Speaker:Hello everyone and welcome to another episode of Biz Bites, and we have
Speaker:a fascinating guest who has a great journey to tell us about that he's
Speaker:been on, but also more importantly, to give you some fantastic insights into.
Speaker:Things that will change the way you think about your business
Speaker:and mindset in particularly.
Speaker:I'm looking forward to this discussion.
Speaker:Let me welcome Bardeep to the program.
Speaker:Welcome.
Speaker:Thanks, Anthony.
Speaker:It's great to be here.
Speaker:Wonderful having this little chat beforehand and now getting into it.
Speaker:Looking forward to this discussion.
Speaker:We've had a bit of fun off air before we've even got started.
Speaker:So we'll have to recapture that as we get into the program.
Speaker:We had to cut it short, didn't we?
Speaker:We had to cut it short.
Speaker:We did.
Speaker:We did.
Speaker:We'll still be talking otherwise and not recording.
Speaker:So let's bring the listeners into the into some of the discussion.
Speaker:But firstly, why don't you give a little bit of an introduction as to
Speaker:who you are and what you're about?
Speaker:Absolutely.
Speaker:Great.
Speaker:Great.
Speaker:So I'm, I'm really terrible at speaking about myself.
Speaker:I'm a business and leadership coach, a purpose coach, and I help my
Speaker:clients define their purpose, get really great in their businesses,
Speaker:get really great at leadership.
Speaker:And it's been a journey for me to get here.
Speaker:My name is Bardeep, which we were just laughing about because it's
Speaker:two English words, bar and deep.
Speaker:And I am a recovered alcoholic.
Speaker:So it was prophetic when I was named that I think my parents knew what
Speaker:was going to happen in my future.
Speaker:So I've been sober for more than 10 years now.
Speaker:This is where you applaud.
Speaker:We're applauding.
Speaker:We're putting in the, we're putting in the fake applause.
Speaker:So I was born in in Africa, in Kenya, East Africa.
Speaker:I went to university in England.
Speaker:After that, I moved to Australia.
Speaker:I had a stint about seven years doing IT in Australia.
Speaker:Then I moved back to Kenya and founded a furniture company there,
Speaker:furniture design and manufacture.
Speaker:And then seven, not about seven and a half years ago, I moved back to
Speaker:Australia because I really wanted to.
Speaker:And this time I moved with my family.
Speaker:And when I got back here, I went, I really want to now follow my own purpose.
Speaker:So when I was studying engineering in university in England I found myself in
Speaker:the library reading about metaphysics.
Speaker:rather than mechatronics.
Speaker:I've always been really interested in the human mind and what our
Speaker:purpose is and why we are here.
Speaker:What it's all about.
Speaker:And I was obsessive about that, but growing up in an Indian Kenyan family,
Speaker:you're either going to be a lawyer, a doctor, or an engineer pick one.
Speaker:If you fail, you can become an accountant.
Speaker:So I went.
Speaker:So no disrespect to any accountants who are listening.
Speaker:But I went and became an engineer and a very poor accountant because I did
Speaker:an accountancy major, which I just scraped through, accountancy minor.
Speaker:But yeah, so my interest was always in humans.
Speaker:So when I got back to Australia seven and a half years ago, I went,
Speaker:okay, now I'm going to give myself to what my purpose is to help my fellow
Speaker:human beings uncover their purpose.
Speaker:and live better lives in however they want to express that.
Speaker:Is that a good enough summary for you, mate?
Speaker:That is a great summary and I want to delve into the into the idea of purpose
Speaker:and leadership, but I'm fascinated firstly to ask you about that incredible
Speaker:journey that you skipped through rather quickly and and where life
Speaker:started and You're part of family that had already moved countries before.
Speaker:Is that right?
Speaker:So that's correct.
Speaker:And so that whole that's not something that many people experienced in
Speaker:terms of moving country to country and doing it with intention as well.
Speaker:But I'm interested in how that sort of initial upbringing and that idea
Speaker:of moving countries and even trialing it and living in different places.
Speaker:What does, how easy is that to work out and what to do and how do you.
Speaker:Pin the point on the map to where you're going like that difficult
Speaker:things to try and get your head around.
Speaker:I admire people who do it.
Speaker:I think you admire my granddad then.
Speaker:So my granddad lived in a little village in the north of India and Punjab and
Speaker:under British rule when they got independence, just about when they
Speaker:were getting independence in India.
Speaker:There was a big, a lot of demand in Africa, where the British still
Speaker:had protractorates like Kenya.
Speaker:They still had colonies, and they wanted skilled, a skilled workforce to come in.
Speaker:And my granddad was an engineer.
Speaker:Family trade, right?
Speaker:And he went over to test it out to try the waters, to test out what it was like.
Speaker:So in those days you had to take a three day journey by train to get
Speaker:from Punjab to Bombay or Mumbai.
Speaker:And then I think it was a couple of weeks on a, in a boat to get over to
Speaker:Mombasa in Kenya and then further really tortuous journey to get to Nairobi.
Speaker:So he did that and he came to Kenya and he saw, there was a bunch of
Speaker:them a community had formed there.
Speaker:And they started to they started to get into enterprise and business.
Speaker:And then he went back and brought his entire family with him.
Speaker:But here's the interesting story.
Speaker:There was a point at which my grandfather was a bit of a hothead.
Speaker:So when he went back to India to bring his family over, he had an
Speaker:argument with his wife who was resisting and didn't want to go.
Speaker:And he said in that case, I'm going back on my own.
Speaker:And he took off and he went back to Mumbai, three days on
Speaker:the train, went back to Mumbai.
Speaker:Had a change of mind and then came back to Punjab.
Speaker:Otherwise I wouldn't be sitting here.
Speaker:And so here's another little part of that story.
Speaker:One of his brothers, so my granddad from Kenya, sent mail called one of
Speaker:his brothers and said, come over.
Speaker:It's really great here.
Speaker:We can do great.
Speaker:Great.
Speaker:We'll do wonderfully here.
Speaker:And so his brother traveled from Punjab to Mumbai, same thing, three days on
Speaker:the train, got to Mumbai, got on the wrong ship, ended up in Malaysia.
Speaker:So I've got cousins that I recently met who are in Malaysia
Speaker:Isn't that it's like the store.
Speaker:It's like the stories of people who buy a ticket from somewhere overseas
Speaker:to sydney Yeah, and don't check that.
Speaker:It's sydney australia and end up end up in the other Sydney
Speaker:in the other part of the world.
Speaker:Yeah.
Speaker:There's a London in Ontario as well, isn't there?
Speaker:There is.
Speaker:Yes, you can, yes it's it's not as easy as when, these days, even you, when you
Speaker:punch your destination into Waze and it tells you here, and suddenly you realize,
Speaker:hey, I'm going in the wrong direction.
Speaker:Why is this taking three hours when it should only be taking
Speaker:20 minutes to get there?
Speaker:Yeah totally.
Speaker:Yeah.
Speaker:So anyway, so he's, he's the man who brought us into Kenya and then
Speaker:living and growing up in Kenya.
Speaker:It's very interesting.
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Speaker:Living and growing up in Kenya.
Speaker:It's very interesting being Indian.
Speaker:Living and growing up in Kenya.
Speaker:I was a minority.
Speaker:We were minorities, right?
Speaker:So we grew up as a minority there now going back to visit India.
Speaker:I'd never lived in India going back to visit I feel like a foreigner in India.
Speaker:So I don't feel like I belong there either.
Speaker:It's very foreign to me I speak the same language, but in a different way.
Speaker:I don't have quite the vocabulary I'm seen as a foreigner when I'm in India It's easy
Speaker:to spot me to go that guy's not from here.
Speaker:And so I feel foreign there So growing up a minority in Kenya,
Speaker:I feel like a minority in India.
Speaker:I started in England where I felt I was a minority.
Speaker:I live in Australia now.
Speaker:So I've always had that thing of kind of being, I've got to craft my
Speaker:own identity because my roots, where they're from, I'm not from there.
Speaker:It's like my roots have been planted, but they've never really grown.
Speaker:In that sense.
Speaker:Yes.
Speaker:Yes.
Speaker:They have an, they clearly have an influence on who you
Speaker:are and what you're about.
Speaker:A hundred percent.
Speaker:But but you're right.
Speaker:It's, um, and particularly in Australia where minorities are
Speaker:the majority in, in many respects.
Speaker:So it's there are so many people that are first and second generation in Australia.
Speaker:They have similar experiences.
Speaker:Totally.
Speaker:Totally.
Speaker:Yeah.
Speaker:Yeah.
Speaker:It's totally about, redefining who you are culturally.
Speaker:That's one of the, some of the work I do with my clients is in their company
Speaker:culture, in their business culture.
Speaker:And I totally love that because I have a, because I've had to move around
Speaker:and adapt to different cultures.
Speaker:I have this knack of being able to smell culture, to be able to walk into
Speaker:somewhere and go, what is this about?
Speaker:What does this place feel like?
Speaker:What's working?
Speaker:What's not working?
Speaker:And being able to get, get a sense of that very quickly.
Speaker:So that luckily has set me up for that kind of work, that kind of success
Speaker:has given me a little bit if you like of a superpower there, which
Speaker:I really love, I love using that.
Speaker:Yeah.
Speaker:Culture in a business is becoming more and more important, isn't it?
Speaker:Then, and particularly, I think with the it, That whole idea of how a business
Speaker:looks physically now is so different because people aren't usually all
Speaker:together in one place all the time.
Speaker:Totally.
Speaker:There are a percentage of people that are working from home.
Speaker:There's people that are working in different destinations altogether.
Speaker:Overseas, et cetera.
Speaker:I remember doing some work.
Speaker:Maybe 10 years ago, a bit more with a business who didn't have any employee
Speaker:in the same city and they came together like once a year to to be, and that
Speaker:was so unusual for a small business now that's becoming more and more the norm
Speaker:that people are everywhere because having a physical destination that everyone
Speaker:has to be in isn't always needed.
Speaker:Yeah totally.
Speaker:And it's a massive challenge, right?
Speaker:Because culture used to be the stuff that formed around the water
Speaker:cooler or the coffee machine.
Speaker:And now we don't have that experience anymore.
Speaker:It was just work together.
Speaker:And I think what the interesting thing here is for, for employers, for for
Speaker:corporates and stuff, for instance, Amazon have recently mandated that
Speaker:everyone goes back to the office, you got to be in the office five days a week.
Speaker:I believe com bank have really recently done that here as well.
Speaker:I heard about that.
Speaker:I haven't verified it yet, but I heard about that and to me, I think that's a
Speaker:massive going to be a massive problem for them because, the younger people
Speaker:are going to go I don't want to work like this and the top performance
Speaker:who have options are going to go I don't want to work like this.
Speaker:So henceforth, there's going to be this pool of people who are left,
Speaker:who just going to accept it because they don't have another option.
Speaker:It's going to be really interesting.
Speaker:Now, in terms of setting up culture for a remote workforce, what's
Speaker:really interesting is what are the basic formation blocks of culture?
Speaker:And I totally love looking at that because in my opinion, culture is
Speaker:about the joint beliefs you hold.
Speaker:What is it you believe to be true as a group?
Speaker:What is the purpose of you coming together and what are the cultural
Speaker:stories and myths you pass around each other in order to form that culture?
Speaker:So in a sense, it's very much about the campfire stories that form the culture
Speaker:and as employers understanding that you can actually seed those campfire stories.
Speaker:If you know the right beliefs, That you need your workplace,
Speaker:your company to be about.
Speaker:Unfortunately, culture is not really understood that well.
Speaker:People think it's very airy fairy.
Speaker:I've recently actually written an article in matters magazine here on
Speaker:the Sunshine Coast about family culture in business, how to develop that.
Speaker:And it's really about seeding that taking those joint beliefs
Speaker:and turning them into culture.
Speaker:Now, a lot of people think culture is about values and I disagree with that.
Speaker:I think values form a part of it.
Speaker:But beliefs are much more important because the beliefs are really the
Speaker:formation of what we believe to be true or what we believe we're here for
Speaker:and why we're doing what we're doing.
Speaker:So beliefs and purpose are, in my opinion, the founding the foundation of culture.
Speaker:Yeah, I can absolutely see that.
Speaker:And I think people.
Speaker:Don't pay enough attention to culture and and where that where
Speaker:that has an impact on things.
Speaker:When you do come from different places, it's hard to find that
Speaker:middle ground sometimes and to develop what is the work culture.
Speaker:And I think the idea of what culture was in workplaces not that long ago,
Speaker:but certainly 10 years or more ago.
Speaker:Was very different to what it is now, because particularly around the whole
Speaker:idea of bringing, of leaving your personal stuff at the door, which is
Speaker:what was the big sort of go to that businesses would say to you, I don't
Speaker:care what happens, in your personal life, you leave that at the door.
Speaker:You come in here and you focus on work and that's, you can't do that.
Speaker:And you can't do that anymore.
Speaker:And you shouldn't even try.
Speaker:Absolutely.
Speaker:You shouldn't.
Speaker:And that's, and I think that's one of the challenges if the that's come about
Speaker:through the work from home thing is that whole idea of I can go and pick the
Speaker:kids up from school because me going and taking a 20 minute break at, three o'clock
Speaker:in the afternoon is not a big problem.
Speaker:When I'm working from home, when you're in the office, it's not
Speaker:it's actually leaving the office at three o'clock in the afternoon or
Speaker:probably two 30 in the afternoon.
Speaker:And the chances that you're going to come back at a meaningful
Speaker:time, but it's too hard to manage.
Speaker:And so do you throw out That family idea that people have become accustomed
Speaker:to over the last three, four years.
Speaker:I don't think that's that easy to do.
Speaker:I think you're absolutely spot on.
Speaker:Like in the 80s, early 90s as well, the whole focus was on management.
Speaker:There was management consultants there, and there was most of the
Speaker:conversation in boardrooms was around management, and that's now shifted
Speaker:because our conversations nowadays in terms culturally in businesses are
Speaker:about leadership and self leadership and the difference between management
Speaker:and leadership is management was about tasks and leadership is about people.
Speaker:So when we shift to a leadership focus, it's like what Branson
Speaker:Richard Branson used to say.
Speaker:You look after your people and they look after your customers.
Speaker:And if you don't do that, you're not going to have customers and every
Speaker:business, this is one of the things I argue with some of my clients is that
Speaker:they see themselves as the center of their business and then their team,
Speaker:and then their customers out there.
Speaker:And I tell them, we've got that completely wrong because the model
Speaker:of your business that you should be living by and preaching and dedicated
Speaker:to is that your customer is the center.
Speaker:Then your team wraps around that your team, your services, your products,
Speaker:and then you have somewhere on the periphery, but everything points inwards.
Speaker:Everything that you do has to have a purpose to deliver a
Speaker:benefit to your clients, to your customer at the end of the day.
Speaker:And that's the thing.
Speaker:If we don't focus on our people and essentially when we're telling them,
Speaker:you can't have this anymore, you get back into the office and you stay
Speaker:here five days with the message we're giving them is we don't care about you.
Speaker:We don't care about you.
Speaker:You're just a function.
Speaker:Get in there and do your effing job.
Speaker:What do people do when they're told what to do?
Speaker:They rebel.
Speaker:Not a lot.
Speaker:So we're going to see a lot of quiet quitting.
Speaker:We're going to see a degradation of culture.
Speaker:We're going to see all this fun stuff come about.
Speaker:And it's very interesting.
Speaker:And I was thinking about this the other day.
Speaker:I was actually talking to someone about this and going, Could this be,
Speaker:could this move, these moves happen because the businesses, the companies
Speaker:think they're going to replace people with AI functions anyway.
Speaker:And henceforth, let's start making this transition now.
Speaker:Get a workforce who's happy to be here, because we don't need our top performers.
Speaker:We're going to replace them, mostly, and we don't need the people
Speaker:who are doing repetitive tasks.
Speaker:We're going to replace them.
Speaker:I don't know.
Speaker:It was just a thought that came to me.
Speaker:I thought because I don't see how that strategy comes about.
Speaker:Anyway, it's interesting.
Speaker:Yes.
Speaker:Look, we're going to delve a little bit more into the AI discussion.
Speaker:Oh, nice bonus content at the end, because what's going to be the future
Speaker:with AI and is this whole idea of humans and purpose being replaced by AI.
Speaker:We're going to have that in the bonus content.
Speaker:So people will have to click on the link below in the show
Speaker:notes to be able to access that.
Speaker:So we'll come back to that later on.
Speaker:But I do want to talk to you a bit more about leadership and this
Speaker:whole concept of it, because it is a term that gets thrown around a lot.
Speaker:And and we've tacked on this idea of thought leadership.
Speaker:I've and then potentially there's another level above thought leaders,
Speaker:which are the idea creators that are sitting above that as well.
Speaker:Where do, Defining those different levels, I think, is one thing.
Speaker:But before we even go into that, what, to put it bluntly, what
Speaker:gives you the right to be talking about leadership in that way?
Speaker:How do you get into a situation where we talked a little bit about your
Speaker:journey, but we skip more around the countries and the basics and things.
Speaker:What's got you into a position of leadership?
Speaker:What have you done to be able to speak about leadership?
Speaker:Sure.
Speaker:Okay, happy to answer that.
Speaker:I believe.
Speaker:All leadership starts with self leadership and self leadership is about taking
Speaker:100 percent responsibility for the outcomes that you're seeing in life.
Speaker:So I find people tend to operate in two ways.
Speaker:One is that they take full responsibility or they sit in a position where they're
Speaker:able to blame things and blaming circumstances or blaming a system or
Speaker:blaming the weather for poor performance.
Speaker:Or not getting what you want out of life is essentially moving responsibility
Speaker:away because we say responsibility lies with that circumstance, not with me.
Speaker:But when we become at cause, which is what I say, self leadership is, we take
Speaker:a hundred percent responsibility for the outcomes, the impact we're having
Speaker:and for our entire journey in life.
Speaker:So the reason I'm sitting here with you today and being, we're able to
Speaker:have this conversation is because of millions of things that have
Speaker:happened in the past for both of us.
Speaker:That have come together this network of things has happened and we're here today
Speaker:And we are responsible for that entire network of things to come here to get
Speaker:to this point So like I was saying for instance, I spent Quite a few years of
Speaker:my life being a practicing alcoholic and that practicing alcoholic is Essentially
Speaker:a way to blame something else for my problems And saying, I've got these
Speaker:problems is because of that, here I am.
Speaker:I'm going to numb myself with it.
Speaker:And the shift that had to happen.
Speaker:And that's the reason why I'm here today, that I'm actually alive today.
Speaker:It was because I had a moment where I knew I had to make a
Speaker:choice either to change or to die.
Speaker:That's where I was at.
Speaker:And I was with my kids, my young little kids at the time, who
Speaker:were like 7 and 10 at that time.
Speaker:This is actually a little hard to talk about.
Speaker:But I was looking at them and looking at family pictures on the wall in
Speaker:a projector in my office in Kenya.
Speaker:And I just had another massive argument with my wife.
Speaker:This is another great thing.
Speaker:Practicing alcoholics like myself are very good at doing is causing arguments and
Speaker:circumstances and then going I'm going to go and drink now because you've stressed
Speaker:me out blame, not taking responsibility.
Speaker:So there I'm with my kids drinking, looking at this and I looked over at them
Speaker:and I had a moment of realization and that was that I didn't have very long
Speaker:before they were going to be orphans.
Speaker:As in they were going to be fatherless and that, um, the way I was heading,
Speaker:if I didn't take responsibility for myself and the outcomes in my life,
Speaker:that I wouldn't be able to give them the life that they actually deserved.
Speaker:And that was the moment that changed.
Speaker:That was 10 years, one month ago, pretty much.
Speaker:Today was 28th September is my day.
Speaker:The day I count as my non belly button birthday.
Speaker:So everything, the move back to Australia and all of that
Speaker:happened as a result of that.
Speaker:So going back to what you say about leadership, like I said, I've
Speaker:always been interested in humans, always been interested in culture.
Speaker:I've studied with the best of the best in, in, in training myself
Speaker:up after I moved back to Australia and somewhat before in coaching, in
Speaker:NLP and hypnosis and in leadership.
Speaker:to make sure that I've got the skills, the capabilities to deliver
Speaker:what I talk about with people.
Speaker:So in Kenya, I had, I built up a fairly large business where 65 people
Speaker:at one time and very well recognized furniture business that came, it was
Speaker:myself and one carpenter who started it.
Speaker:And in, by the, at its peak, I was recognized as one of
Speaker:the best designers in Kenya.
Speaker:I'm sorry, in Africa.
Speaker:And I, I was being flown around to New York to go to galleries
Speaker:and this, that and the other and starting to exhibit internationally.
Speaker:And then the drinking brought me down from my high horse where I was so
Speaker:great and I ended up that hangout.
Speaker:I was just a broken gutter drunk, covering up my insecurities with it.
Speaker:So the climb back from there is what my leadership journey is about.
Speaker:It's not about, it is about what I did before, but not.
Speaker:quite to the extent of climbing out of that and rebuilding myself.
Speaker:Like I said, I trained with the Mind Academy here in Australia
Speaker:for NLP and hypnosis, which is one of the best NLP courses.
Speaker:It's the Mind Academy run by a very great friend of mine, Alistair Horscroft.
Speaker:He's one of the world leading trainers in that.
Speaker:And NLP is what helps me reframe my mind and helps me very quickly
Speaker:reframe the minds of other people that I'm working with.
Speaker:That gave me almost like superpowers to be able to help people and to be
Speaker:able to change beliefs on a single and cultural collective basis.
Speaker:So that was the starting point of my practice, my coaching practice.
Speaker:And I also did some life coaching with the Life Coaching
Speaker:Academy certification with them.
Speaker:Then I discovered a couple of giants in the leadership world.
Speaker:One is John Matone.
Speaker:John Mattones considered the world's best executive coach,
Speaker:and he was Steve Jobs old coach.
Speaker:And the reason I went to him is because we talked the same
Speaker:language in terms of purpose.
Speaker:The work he did with Steve Jobs was very much about purpose.
Speaker:Let me tell you a little, this is a great story that John told me.
Speaker:I just, I totally love this story.
Speaker:He says when he started working with Steve Jobs found him because of a
Speaker:book that John Matone had written.
Speaker:And when he first started working with John Matone, they started
Speaker:doing the purpose work, yeah digging in to find out what purpose was.
Speaker:And he says there was this one time when he was sitting with Steve and
Speaker:Steve was looking out of the window, with a far away look in his eyes.
Speaker:And he turned to him.
Speaker:Steve turned to him, Steve used to call him Matone apparently, and
Speaker:he said, Matone, you know what?
Speaker:This is the work I wish I had done at the start of my life
Speaker:rather than towards the end of it.
Speaker:Cause at that point he knew what he was facing.
Speaker:And when I heard that story, it gave me goosebumps as and that's my leadership
Speaker:practice is about the very first thing you've got to work on is your purpose.
Speaker:You don't have your purpose.
Speaker:You don't know which direction you're heading in.
Speaker:You don't know what you're here for.
Speaker:You don't know what you're alive for.
Speaker:And I've taken what John Matone built and I've put my own kind of purpose
Speaker:methodology on top of that to deliver what I think is probably one of
Speaker:the best purpose and guidance tools not just for executives, for anyone
Speaker:right now to be able to discover what it is that they're here for.
Speaker:And it, it borrows on the Ikigai methodology, but expands on that.
Speaker:And it takes what the word John Matone did.
Speaker:So I discovered John, and I became certified in his intelligent
Speaker:leadership methodology.
Speaker:He's a very good friend of mine.
Speaker:We're looking at perhaps doing some stuff together in the future.
Speaker:And he calls me, what was he?
Speaker:He's giving me this presentation.
Speaker:Title it's master certified, intelligent leadership coach,
Speaker:executive coach, something like that.
Speaker:It's just a mouthful.
Speaker:Everything John Matone does is a mouthful.
Speaker:It's brilliant.
Speaker:Just love the guy, and he's Italian.
Speaker:So when he told me now you've, you've graduated.
Speaker:Now you're part of the family.
Speaker:And this Italian guy with a New York accent said that to me, I popped
Speaker:myself, so it's I'm going to get whacked as soon as I'm in the family.
Speaker:It's a whole different connotation, doesn't it?
Speaker:When you think of it that way.
Speaker:Yeah.
Speaker:I didn't tell him that just in case it upset him.
Speaker:Anyway, then, the second leadership giant that I work with is John
Speaker:Maxwell who's considered the world's foremost leadership expert.
Speaker:So there's John Matone, the number one executive coach and John Maxwell, who's
Speaker:the, number one leadership authority who's written, I don't know, I don't know
Speaker:how many books over 20 something books.
Speaker:He's got 50, 000 people in his organization that he trains.
Speaker:I'm a speaker, a coach, a trainer within John Maxwell system.
Speaker:off leadership as well.
Speaker:So those are the tools to help humans discover how to become really great at
Speaker:what they want to accomplish in life.
Speaker:And when we talk about purpose, Life purpose and our purpose
Speaker:at work has to be synergistic.
Speaker:In the old days when you had, we used to have to go into the
Speaker:mines and we were just told go in there and just dig for 12 hours.
Speaker:That's your shift and then come out.
Speaker:And we didn't have a choice about it.
Speaker:Things have changed.
Speaker:Like we've been talking about.
Speaker:So getting our purpose aligned personally and with the work we want
Speaker:to do is really critically important.
Speaker:So right now, having done all this work and being able to be a
Speaker:vessel for my clients with this work, I'm completely on purpose.
Speaker:To me, this is what I was born to do, and my entire journey has brought
Speaker:me to this point where I can sit here and quite proudly say that.
Speaker:You've achieved an enormous amount with all of, the accreditations,
Speaker:the moving and everything.
Speaker:But there's one specific thing that I think makes you stand out is that as
Speaker:well, is that ability for introspection, because that moment when you made the
Speaker:decision that I think to stop drinking that moment when you were thinking
Speaker:about where you were heading and what, and where your own purpose was, and
Speaker:perhaps you didn't, equate it in terms of purpose at that point in time.
Speaker:But that's, takes an enormous amount to be able to do that and to then run with
Speaker:that and say, okay, I've pulled myself out of this, but now I can do more and I
Speaker:can give people more as a result of that.
Speaker:I think that puts you in a pretty unique position to talk
Speaker:about to talk about leadership.
Speaker:No, thanks.
Speaker:So I'm kudos to you for achieving all of that.
Speaker:Oh, Thank you very much.
Speaker:I'll just make one brief point there.
Speaker:That moment, that one moment of clarity, what we call, it's the BFO, the blinding
Speaker:flash of the obvious, that happened.
Speaker:I do.
Speaker:It was like one moment of clarity in an entire fog.
Speaker:Like lightning came down and struck me in this fog that I was living in.
Speaker:And to this day I can remember it so clearly, like it's
Speaker:happening right in front of me.
Speaker:And that is what I think would be so serendipitous that I'd call it grace.
Speaker:It's a moment of grace in my life.
Speaker:With whatever was meant to be, that's what set me up on my path to say, Hey,
Speaker:Enough of this BS mate, get on with it.
Speaker:What I, what I've been lucky enough to record lots of
Speaker:these episodes of Biz Bites.
Speaker:And I've had a handful of people that have had those kinds of moments in their life.
Speaker:And it really, it what, Amazes me is how many great things they've
Speaker:gone on to do as a result of it, that they've made it count.
Speaker:And I think that's what the difference is too, because at that
Speaker:point you have a choice to make.
Speaker:And part of that choice is also Helping others achieve their own greatness as a
Speaker:result of it, making it mean something to other people as well as yourself.
Speaker:So all that being said, let's come back to this concept of leadership.
Speaker:And, it's, as I said before, it's a term that gets thrown around a lot.
Speaker:Just because you're in charge, does it make you a leader?
Speaker:Yes.
Speaker:Does it make you a great leader?
Speaker:No.
Speaker:Does it make you a thought leader?
Speaker:No.
Speaker:Does it make you, does it make you at the next level where you're the one
Speaker:generating the ideas in the first place?
Speaker:No.
Speaker:And I think trying to, how important is it to differentiate between those
Speaker:different levels and how do you actually.
Speaker:Drag people along find where they should where they should
Speaker:sit, find where they should sit.
Speaker:Perhaps drag is the wrong thing, but allowing themselves to make a decision
Speaker:and fight, find their own purpose in terms of where they sit in leadership
Speaker:and what that ultimately looks like.
Speaker:Absolutely.
Speaker:Okay.
Speaker:So I'll give you, I'll give you a couple of quotes here.
Speaker:The first one is John Maxwell.
Speaker:John Maxwell says leadership is influence, nothing more, nothing less.
Speaker:And the second one, I don't know who said this, I can't remember
Speaker:the name, but it's That you don't need a position to be a leader
Speaker:So leadership is like when I started the you know talking about leadership.
Speaker:I talk about self leadership.
Speaker:It doesn't matter where you're at You are there.
Speaker:That's where you're starting from and leadership is about how do you Become the
Speaker:greatest version of you that you can be.
Speaker:How do you maximize your potential whatever your position is?
Speaker:Doesn't matter.
Speaker:So when, whether I'm working with a CEO or I'm working with
Speaker:the janitor, it doesn't matter.
Speaker:It does not matter because it's about that human and all humans
Speaker:have their challenges, have their blockages and all those challenges
Speaker:and blockages are self generated.
Speaker:Normally, it's about the perception of what something is.
Speaker:Not really what the thing is.
Speaker:I was having a conversation just before I was actually where I was coaching
Speaker:someone who had who he the this guy had convinced himself That in order to be able
Speaker:to give and be of service that he needed to sacrifice himself He's a lovely man.
Speaker:He's you know had a heart transplant a while ago he's so genuine and caring one
Speaker:of the most generous souls I've ever met and yet You He had framed his life in
Speaker:such a way that he was going to sacrifice himself in order to be able to give.
Speaker:So the obvious question was when you sacrifice yourself, you end, right?
Speaker:And then you got nothing to give.
Speaker:And we talked about Martin Luther King, life cut short, wasn't able to give.
Speaker:Gandhi achieved a lot life cut short, though he was still, killed had a lot
Speaker:to give Mandela lived out a full life.
Speaker:But these are the, leadership icons that I love to look at.
Speaker:So when you're on purpose and you're giving, it's not really about that.
Speaker:It's not about sacrifice is, the reframe.
Speaker:So he got a lot out of that conversation.
Speaker:Um, coming back to what you're saying, how do you drag someone along?
Speaker:So I, I like to think of it as a four part process.
Speaker:When I work with anyone and if I'm working within the context of leadership.
Speaker:So the first thing is inspiration.
Speaker:They have to have something that comes from within that inspires them.
Speaker:Yeah.
Speaker:So inspiration is the first thing that, and then that
Speaker:inspiration leads to insight.
Speaker:Insight is what creates a vision that this is what I want to be in the future.
Speaker:If we're not inspired, we can't have the right kind of insight because we're
Speaker:still looking from the same state.
Speaker:As not being inspired, so creating inspiration leads to this insight,
Speaker:which creates this vision from that insight, then we start to create
Speaker:proper leadership influence the ability to go to get there to that vision
Speaker:together with others to have things happen towards this joint vision.
Speaker:That's very inspiring and the last part of it is, of course, impact because as we
Speaker:become leaders and we do more and we're able to have more impact in the world.
Speaker:very much.
Speaker:So at the end of the day, the inspiration leads to insight, leads to influence,
Speaker:leads to impact, and impact is what all leaders want to create in the world.
Speaker:They want to make some sort of positive difference.
Speaker:So that's the journey I take people on, and it doesn't matter who they are with.
Speaker:See, in leadership development, we have a whole bunch of tools that we use.
Speaker:So we do a lot of assessments.
Speaker:That's, self assessments.
Speaker:I use a lot of tools like I use John Matone's proprietary tools.
Speaker:called the Matone Leadership Enneagram Inventory.
Speaker:I told you that everything was a mouthful with Matone stuff.
Speaker:That's called the MLEI.
Speaker:I use the DISC methodology.
Speaker:We use some Myers Briggs, use strengths profiles, but we get someone's
Speaker:assessment of who they are on the inside.
Speaker:That's them answering questions about themselves.
Speaker:And then we do a whole bunch of assessments from the outside, where we
Speaker:look at the person from the point of view of others, and we get them to fill
Speaker:in 360 feedback, et cetera, about them.
Speaker:About what their strengths are, what their weaknesses are, what,
Speaker:where their blind spots are.
Speaker:So we build this massive, beautiful picture of who this person is.
Speaker:Because one of the things John Matone says is, prescription
Speaker:without diagnosis is malpractice.
Speaker:So first, we must get the diagnosis right.
Speaker:Then we take them on the journey where we start to, we have an agreed coaching plan.
Speaker:These are the changes we need to make.
Speaker:Here's all the assessments.
Speaker:This is what they've led to.
Speaker:These are the insights we gain.
Speaker:This is the changes that need to happen.
Speaker:So we put that together in a very a really beautiful thing called
Speaker:a leadership development plan.
Speaker:Then we go on a coaching journey where we are measuring against that.
Speaker:We take them on this journey three, three months, six months a year, whatever it is.
Speaker:And we remeasure at the end, we assess again, and we go,
Speaker:okay, have we hit our goals?
Speaker:What's left?
Speaker:What's not left?
Speaker:And we go back to the start.
Speaker:We do look at the assessments again.
Speaker:What's changed?
Speaker:What hasn't changed?
Speaker:And do we need to go through the process again?
Speaker:So it's actually, there's the internal inspiration, insight influence and impact.
Speaker:And then there's the external journey that's going on at the same time.
Speaker:And we can do the same with individuals, teams, cultures, got all the tools.
Speaker:To do all of that to actually make scientific level kind of measured impacts
Speaker:on humans and on teams and on cultures.
Speaker:I want to ask a couple more questions before we have to
Speaker:finish up the main episode.
Speaker:But just a reminder to everyone, we're going to have a further discussion
Speaker:about AI and and purpose and humans and where that's going into the future.
Speaker:And that's going to be fascinating.
Speaker:So that's in the bonus content with the link in the show notes below.
Speaker:But let me just wrap up the main part of the conversation with asking you about.
Speaker:what people can do to decide to have that introspective nature.
Speaker:To examine where they are in terms of leadership and purpose.
Speaker:What is it that they what are some tips and things for people that are listening
Speaker:in to say, how do they take that initial step to start going down that path?
Speaker:Totally got you.
Speaker:That's, and that's a great, I think that's a great question.
Speaker:So there's a few things.
Speaker:And I think the first thing is people need to work out why
Speaker:they're here, why they're alive.
Speaker:What are you here for?
Speaker:And.
Speaker:I think people have succumbed and given their agency away to some
Speaker:extent by saying that their purpose is actually to fulfill a corporate
Speaker:or commercial purpose in the world.
Speaker:As we come, we're trained, educated to go and fulfill a job role.
Speaker:And then we end up going doing that.
Speaker:And then we get to the end where, we've got this promise that
Speaker:retirement's gonna be great.
Speaker:And by the time we get there, we're old and decrepit and
Speaker:the best days are behind us.
Speaker:We enjoy ourselves, sacrifice our health to get here, our families,
Speaker:our relationships to get there.
Speaker:And there's no promise at the end of it.
Speaker:So I really encourage people to ask very deep questions and I love as a
Speaker:coach to hold the space where they can't escape from that question.
Speaker:They have to go really deep.
Speaker:I love doing identity level questions like, who are you?
Speaker:What are you really about?
Speaker:And people will come up with this is my name.
Speaker:No, that's a label.
Speaker:That's a label.
Speaker:That's all you are.
Speaker:Who are you?
Speaker:And getting them to really dig inside until they get really uncomfortable.
Speaker:And it's the discomfort that leads to a breakthrough.
Speaker:So the first thing I'd recommend is, get some real, ask yourself the deep
Speaker:questions and see if you can work out what your purpose is, what your identity is.
Speaker:And what your beliefs are about what life is about, why you're here.
Speaker:You can, if you can start to tackle those three things,
Speaker:that that's a great big start.
Speaker:I love going away on meditation retreats.
Speaker:I went to Vipassana, that's a couple of years ago.
Speaker:Vipassana is 10 days.
Speaker:You're meditating 10 hours a day and you don't talk to anyone.
Speaker:Oh my God.
Speaker:For the first three days, my mind went insane.
Speaker:It's like I had, I had someone in a padded cell in a straitjacket
Speaker:in my head, just running around.
Speaker:Because my head, my, my thoughts were so intense.
Speaker:So I love meditation for that reason.
Speaker:Because the realization is my thoughts are all going on all the time.
Speaker:I'm not really thinking them.
Speaker:And my thoughts are all based on this external stuff.
Speaker:They're going into the past, the present, I'm sorry, the past or the future.
Speaker:And they're, this is good or this is bad.
Speaker:And they're just circling around that.
Speaker:But where am I in all of this?
Speaker:What agency do I have about what I'm thinking about?
Speaker:So that helps people come out of the conditioning self.
Speaker:The second thing I'd recommend is get some feedback.
Speaker:We can't read the label from inside the jar.
Speaker:We're like inside the jar, we've got this label.
Speaker:So asking people questions like what are my best qualities?
Speaker:What do you think my gifts are?
Speaker:What about me annoys you?
Speaker:What don't you like?
Speaker:You know getting this external feedback from people you trust who are close to
Speaker:you can be really helpful I did that with some people and I you know I ran
Speaker:this leadership group and I got them all to do it and I did it myself and
Speaker:I got some really good feedback And that made me realize that actually
Speaker:the central tenet Of where I sit and what I provide people is wisdom And
Speaker:I hadn't quite caught on to that.
Speaker:And that, that, that said, Oh yeah, of course it made sense to
Speaker:me that for me, everything falls within the umbrella of wisdom.
Speaker:So that can be very beneficial because inside, when we go into
Speaker:our minds, we are a bit crazy.
Speaker:I'm about 80 percent crazy and going in there to find truth with that noise
Speaker:going on is very difficult So that's why coaching really helps is because
Speaker:when you're in coaching and someone asks you the right question That right
Speaker:question can get into your depths like you wouldn't believe and you can't
Speaker:escape it When you're coaching when you're sitting on your own you distract
Speaker:yourself when you're in coaching.
Speaker:It's amazing.
Speaker:Sorry You want to say something so powerful to be able to do that.
Speaker:And I've been lucky enough to be part of doing that with a few people as well.
Speaker:And it's when you see the results and they have those moments yeah.
Speaker:And that's the, that's what I was, that's the last question I wanted
Speaker:to ask you in the, in this main part of the podcast is what is the aha
Speaker:moment that people have when they're working with you that you wish more
Speaker:people knew that we're going to have.
Speaker:Yeah.
Speaker:That's great.
Speaker:I love that question.
Speaker:That's a beautiful question.
Speaker:It's a great question to end on actually.
Speaker:So when I talk about, conditioning and people not knowing purpose, it's
Speaker:almost like they have a compass inside them that's just going round and round
Speaker:and then they run in one direction following that, then it'll change
Speaker:and they run in another direction.
Speaker:So doing this internal work gives you your true north.
Speaker:You know where it is when it's almost like that needle settles.
Speaker:And you go, Ah, that's what it's about.
Speaker:That's what I'm about.
Speaker:That's why I'm here.
Speaker:And that's who I am.
Speaker:And to be able to accept that fully, it's almost like you feel
Speaker:it from, the top of your head to the depths, the core of your being.
Speaker:And that alignment it's like a laser focus.
Speaker:A laser is like 50 watts.
Speaker:It's like the bulb I have ahead of me, above me.
Speaker:But if that's focused to a single point, it can cut through steel,
Speaker:it can cut through anything.
Speaker:It becomes, you become laser focused then.
Speaker:Because all the stuff that's, the shiny objects and all the stuff
Speaker:that's distracting us goes away.
Speaker:We know what we're about and we're able to do that.
Speaker:And then we're able to have the impact in the world that we want to.
Speaker:What a fantastic way to end the main part of the podcast.
Speaker:And just as we were about to say, thank you, reminding everyone, bonus
Speaker:content, humans and and AI the future.
Speaker:Let's talk about that.
Speaker:But for now as the main part of this podcast, thank you so much for
Speaker:being not only so generous with your time, but so open with your journey.
Speaker:And I think people will have appreciated listening to that.
Speaker:I know I certainly did.
Speaker:Oh, thanks Anthony.
Speaker:I really appreciate the opportunity.
Speaker:I'm here to serve.
Speaker:That's what my life is about, and I'm so glad that we've had the opportunity
Speaker:to have this conversation and, your own generosity in providing a platform for
Speaker:us to do, so I really appreciate that.
Speaker:I'm very humbled.
Speaker:Thank you, and to everyone listening in.
Speaker:Hit the button so you can hear the bonus content.
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